The Ordinary Days

There are days in motherhood when nothing extraordinary happens.

No big milestone.

No birthday.

No first day of school.

No carefully planned family adventure.

Just breakfast dishes in the sink, little shoes scattered near the door, someone asking for another snack, toys covering the floor, and a house that somehow becomes messy again five minutes after you clean it.

Those days can feel completely ordinary.

But lately, I’ve been thinking about how quickly ordinary becomes something we miss.

The little voice calling “Mom.”

The child who still wants to climb into your lap.

The tiny hand automatically reaching for yours in a parking lot.

The bedtime stories.

The stuffed animals tucked underneath little arms.

The fingerprints on the windows.

The shoes that somehow get smaller every few months.

One day, without realizing it, you pick your child up for the last time.

One night is the last night they ask you to lie beside them until they fall asleep.

One morning they walk into school without turning around to make sure you’re still standing there.

Motherhood is full of invisible endings.

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